Sumner Middle student, family protest bully at Tangi Schools office; Jackson works on monitoring plan
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Sumner Middle student on bully
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Jewel M. Sumner Middle School student Chris Lang Jr., 13, said he had his arm broken in two places after a bullying incident at his school. Lang and his family contend he has been a victim of bullying before, but it hasn’t stopped yet. Photo by Alissa Vilardo.

AMITE-- About two dozen family members, friends and supporters of 13-year old Jewel M. Sumner Middle School student Chris Lang arrived in protest at the Tangipahoa Parish Schools Central Office at 9 a.m. Monday morning, Nov. 5.

Chris Lang came with his arm wrapped in a cast and bruises on his left shoulder. He said he has been a victim of bullying for years in the school system. Last week, the bullying turned worse when Lang’s arm was broken in two places.

The group of about two dozen chanted “enough is enough already,” and it’s time for the board to put an end to the violence in local public schools.

Chris Lang said a classmate, who had threatened him before and throughout the PE hour, slammed him with his elbow, knocking him to the floor.

Lang said he received no medical attention as a result of the attack, but that his father, Chris Lang Sr. was eventually called to the school.

“They called me, but what they should have done was call the ambulance,” said Chris Lang Sr., clearly tired and frustrated of the ordeal. “When I got to the school, his arm looked like a dog’s leg, bent out of shape. It was obvious it was broken.”

Chris Lang Sr. said he has made contact several times with the middle school about the harassment his son receives, but still it continues.

Even more frustrating is that the classmate who bullied his son remains in school to this day, the father said.

Lang Sr. said one of the boys responsible for the bullying last week did apologize to the family, but no apologies have been forthcoming from the alleged bully himself or his family.

The student victim said he sees exactly why so many children end up “committing suicide all the time” over bullying. He said he knows how they feel, although he hasn’t taken it to those extremes.

Chris Lang Jr. has an older brother, Corey, who is a 15-year old student at Sumner High, and said he tries his best to stay calm about the matter, though it makes him angry.

“It’s just plain stupid,” Corey said of the bullies.

At approximately 9:15 a.m. Monday and just moments after the gathering began, Tangipahoa Schools Assistant Superintendent Lionel Jackson came outside and asked the family to come in the Central Office and discuss the situation.

Several of Lang’s family went immediately indoors, while a few others stayed outside in protest. Moments later, they said Lang’s principal, Brenda Johnson, was on her way to the Central Office.

The victim's grandmother says she worries about teaching their children to defend themselves, knowing they too could end up getting reprimanded for defending themselves.

“It’s a shame when we have to teach our kids to be mean just to survive in school,” said grandmother Sandy Lang.

In a telephone interview with the Amite Tangi Digest/Tangelena.com on Nov. 5, Jackson said Superintendent Mark Kolwe has implemented an anti-bullying manual now enforced in all Tangipahoa public schools.

Jackson said the manual was put into place to keep children in the school “away from a stress-free environment.“

He said a meeting was held with Chris Lang Sr. last Thursday about the incident, while another meeting was scheduled for 4 p.m. on Monday, Nov. 5.

Jackson said as a result of Monday morning’s protest, there were some positives to be had.

“We are now implementing a parent monitoring program,” said Jackson. “With training, parents can come to school and help keep an eye on children throughout the day and in the halls, as an extra set of eyes to monitor the situation”

Jackson said he hopes this pilot program can become an example for other schools across the parish.

The parent monitoring program is scheduled to be in place by Wednesday, Nov. 7, after children return from the Election Day holiday, he said.

“I am working on this project as we speak,” Jackson said.

Jackson added that Sumner Middle School principal Brenda Johnson arrived at the Central Office immediately upon hearing that the Lang family had arrived in protest.

“She showed care and concern” Jackson said of Johnson. “Jewel M. Sumner is a good school. One of the best in the parish.”

 

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November 09, 2012
I don't understand why the bullies aren't charged with assault. That's what the Juvenile Justice System is set up for. The poor kid who has his arm broken, the family should press charges against this other kid. Maybe that would wake the little thug up.
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November 08, 2012
I would like to know why my child was sent home for three days for defending her self and a child can break another childs arm and only get sent home for two days
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November 08, 2012
I am very, very disappointed in this system. I live in St. Charles Parish we have absolutely zero tolerance for bullying. My grandchildren are in school at Chesbrough Elementary and are being tormented physically and emotionally by bullies. I am appalled at Principal Edwards' response. My granddaughter was suspended for three days for defending herself from the bully. Then Principal Edwards seems to imply that maybe he can get my grandchildren moved to a different school. Why? Why disrupt my grandchildren's life instead of disciplining the bully or disrupt the bullies lives. I am fed up and have forwarded this story to other media sources. I have a several others willing to help such as a social worker, educators, media professionals, a few politically motivated friends and yes attorneys to. So my suggestion is to get this resolved asap so that not one child is afraid to go to school where they are not being protected. I am prepared to have cameras on the door steps of Chesbrough Elementary so that Principal Edwards can explain his position. Here is a link for those unsure of the policy.

http://www.legis.state.la.us/lss/lss.asp?doc=81029

Sincerely,

Daurice Cummings Bealer

Owner of Your Own Production, Inc. /

Louisiana Entertainment Association
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November 08, 2012
As a parent I have been on both sides of the fence one child doing the bullying and two children being bullied. My child was suspended from school for defending her self from a bully. Since then I have two children who are being threatened and have been hit and nothing done to the bullies. I know very well kids can be kids but when I have been to the school and school board on these matters and my children don't want to go to school there is a serious problem here. I'm my children's voice and I'm not going to shut my mouth or go away.. Also when the parent's of the bullies don't answer there phones and say they don't want to come in for a meeting or threaten me that's a even bigger issue.
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November 07, 2012
I can not believe the comments on here!! What parent would just let this go? We are our childrens voice!!! If we don't protect them who will? Not the school system! I have spoke with several students who have told me that this boy is mean to alot of kids at Sumner middle. My question is .... why did the school board tell us that they didn't have any reports of bullying at Sumner Middle? Is there a principal at this school? Is this a cover-up? I know the Lang family, this child is the sweetest most sincere child that I know. The older brother is not a bully!! The father is not one out for attention! The grandmother loves all children! This could have very easily have been my child or yours, think about that!! Also what kind of parents don't teach their child to respect others. I've heard that this boy is in cowboy church well it is just my opinion but I'm pretty sure that this behavior isn't approved .
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November 06, 2012
Coming from a student at Sumner Middle, I understand just how out of control bulling has gotten. Not just at my school, but worldwide. I'm friends with Chris. We are on the student council together. Granted we aren't extremely close friends, I know that he nor his family would not make a big deal out of this for attention. But this IS a big deal. Chris doesn't deserve it. Neither do the other kids who are bullied. Me being part of that sometimes. And when we are bullied we get some excuse like "Kids will be Kids." Yeah well I'm a kid and i know how to treat someone with something called RESPECT. All of those teachers are always teaching us about that. But unless you tell certain teachers who care about you, nothing will get done. And whatever you do, do not retaliate. Then your in more trouble than the person who bullied you. I'm glad to see someone trying to change the situation. For too long bulling has been thrown under the rug. I hope to see something done soon. Fight on Chris!
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November 06, 2012
Bullying has gotten way out of hand at this school. My nephew being bullied by the child of a coach at the school. Thankfully with the help of the superintendent and a few ugly words the kid has left my nephew alone. The teachers just seem to ignore it thinking it will go away, it doesn't. When a bullies child has had enough and comes to school and pulls a Columbine, whose fault will that be the result of?
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November 07, 2012
@Sidd, it is nice to see someone as young as you mention RESPECT. It is obviously a lost practice by looking at some of these post. I graduated from Sumner and we saw Bullying there then and that was over 26 years ago. Teachers did not take it seriously then either. It sounds like Tangipahoa Parish needs to have a training class on Bullying. One that teachers, students, and parents can all take at the same time.

Just wanted to say KUDDOS to you. Someone cared enough to instill some morals in you!

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November 06, 2012
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and everyone portrays situations differently. In this certain incident, yes someone was hurt and whether it was an accident or on purpose due to so called "bullying" only a few know. If the school has a mandate for no contact football then technically it's not the so called "bully's" fault, it the schools for not enforcing that policy. Yes the boy did cause physical damage but he is not the only one at fault here. You cannot blame one person for an act that was not entirely his fault, when in reality it was many. Yes I do believe that the parents of this child should not have to pay for medical bills since it did occur on school property. None the less, many have taken this way out proportion when it should have been left to the affected families to deal with. But always remember, football is a CONTACT sport, so take the hit, or get off the field.

God Bless all involved!
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November 08, 2012
Flag football is not a contact sport!!!! And when a play is over .... The play is over... When one child screams get him!!!! Another child says I'll get him!!!! After a play is over!!!!! Then runs down a child that was running away from harm and hits the child so hard he breaks TWO BONES in CHRISTOPHER'S arm !!! Laughs and walks away!!!!! Yes this child is a monster!!!!! And yes the school is half at fault!!!! James shouldn't be at our school to begin with!!! Oh yes the School Administration is trying to cover this up!!!! Just like all the other bullying complaints!!!!!! So yes blame is 50 / 50 school administration and yes James!! And shame on you who try to excuse this behavior !!!! If this happened to your child what would you do?????????
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November 06, 2012
I do not know this family, but am so glad that they are taking action to spread the word to get something done about bullying in school not only for there child, but hopefully this will help other families who deal with this everyday. This is sad that nothing is done to the bullies, and I think they know nothing will be done so they think they can get away with it. Bulling is emotional, physical and so much more it hurts so deep that these kids are taking there lives. This is no game or just kids being kids. I know some people personally who have been bullyed in school and everyone just looks other way does nothing. I hope that the schools will enforce the right punishment for these who think Bullying is okay. I have read other comments and will say, we all have right to our opinions but you shouldn't accuse this family for attention, they more than likely trying all they can to protect Chris and get the school to put a stop to this before the bully hurts someone else. Think about if you were in other parents shoes if your child were bullied and this person physically attacked them like this, or any other way. Take a plain piece of paper and crumble it, then undo it now its all wrinkled and you can fix it this is what bullying does words, physical, emotional damage is done, bullies keep on until these students our children are taking there life cause they feel that nobody can help. I pray for the family and bully that this is resolved.
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November 06, 2012
AER your comments reflects really poorly on your judgement. 1st off trying to paint the victim's family as perpetrators in this is shameful. There was no bullying by the victim's siblings in this.

Furthermore trying to minimize this as a PE incident when this clearly isn't the case is absurd.

Then on one hand you try to paint the parents as not caring while on the other hand saying that they're just trying to do this for attention. How is this even possible? They complained about every incident and things just kept escalating, what are they supposed to do? The school didn't address the situations adequately when they were brought to their attention the student and the school need to be held accountable.

You may know the child that perpetuated this and they may be great to your family but I'm sure we can say that about lots of criminals.

As for suing, I hope the family does. Why should they have to pay for the medical bills, physical therapy and counseling that their child is going to need to be as close to normal as possible again?

But hey maybe it won't be all bad for you, the student and the school will need a defense attorney and you already have every excuse (real and imagined) ready to go.
AER
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November 06, 2012
Bully?? Pot calling the kettle black when the older sibling/family member of the bullied child threatened and bullied the alleged bully. Teachers also say the alleged bully is a good student and child. I trust the child with my own 6 year old son, he wouldn't hurt a fly. Many other parents trust their children with him. This incident just occurred and the child's picture is so quickly posted with a bullying sign? Sounds like a cry for attention to me, along with many others. Teenage boys playing football, a rough "fun" contact sport. This is only bringing bad publicity to a good school. One of the only few good schools we have left in our parish. What's suing going to do? Put money in the parent's pockets? Make their child a better person? Make him have more friends? If it was the "4th" attack against this child, where were the parents on the "FIRST"?? When you go public with something, it's called "attention".
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November 06, 2012
I question your parenting skills if you allow this Bully to be around a your 6 year old. Forget, yes forget the fact that this Bully broke Chris’ arm in 2 places. Let’s just talk about this kid’s unbelievable disrespect for adults. The school administrator said that if this kid were his, … well let’s just say he certainly wouldn’t be disrespecting adults the way that he did. It is not hard to see where this Bully gets his strength – once you meet the ineffective, all excuses, no consequences parents!

Furthermore, it was PE and there is a school mandate of NO contact football. The play was over and the Bully attacked Chris.

My guess is your 6 year old will be a Bully too as you are definitely part of the problem!

The parents filed 3 prior incidents with the school. Get your facts straight. Look it up! You are obviously defending this awful kid because you know him/related to him.

And yes, I would agree this family is trying to get “attention” because they realize that without it, the school administrators will do nothing as they did nothing in the first three incidents. If they didn’t try something else, how could they expect to get a different result? Common Sense! I hope they get all of the attention in the world – then maybe ignorant, excuse ridden people like yourself will be forced to see things as they really are!

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November 06, 2012
Are you saying that this kid broke the other kids arm because he was having difficulty with the victim's brother - Not sure if you are aware of this - but that's BULLYING!
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November 07, 2012
@aer.... This is the fifth incident at sumner middle that a child has physically or sexually attacked Christopher so don't try to say this is about attension until you walk in Christopher's shoe's!!!! Lets have the students take lie detector test !!!!! Yes not legal in court but sure goes a long way to the truth!!! I bet James won't take one !!!!!!!!! And further more how bout camera footage ??????
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November 07, 2012
I know both of the students involved and this is ridiculous! The bully has not only been disrespectful by cussing out teachers but has also threatened and bullied several students! If you think this is a cry for attention then you might want to reconsider!! I have witnessed the bully acting out and being cruel first hand! You may say he is a good kid and student but if that were true he wouldn't have disrespected teachers OR the father of the victim and would not treat other students the way he does. He doesn't deserve to be at sumner. He is a danger to students. Every child there that he doesn't agree with is going to be another victim. Maybe next it'll be your child.
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November 07, 2012
@ aer!!!! Just so you know ... Get your facts straight !!!! Christopher's dad went to the school every time these attracts happened and raised all kinds of cane!!!! Ms Johnson and Ms Hammonds assured this would never happen again !!!! The last assault on Christopher last year was the last day of school and the BULLY was suspended 5 days this year!!!!! The school apparently can't control kids like James. Becareful taking up for JAMES AND HIS FAMILY BY ATTACKING HIS VICTUM !!!!!! Specially when you have no idea what's going on!!!!!! This kid doesn't even live in our school district!!! Hmmm
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November 05, 2012


@kidswillbekids:I just read your comment. I guess these kind of comments are to be expected when people don’t know or care to know the entire story. Chris is an awesome little kid. Ask the teachers and students of Sumner Middle. This was the 4th bullying attack against Chris. In a prior incident, there was no broken bones, but awful awful things occurred - and frankly if it were my kid - I would have had the media involved at that point. This was no “PE incident”. Kids overheard someone say, “Someone get him.” And then this kid said, “I’m gonna get him”. Chris was running the opposite direction. Your comment, “the family is obviously doing this for attention”, is reckless and irresponsible as you don’t know this family; you have no idea why this family is doing this. Perhaps this family is protecting their kid and feels there is no other way than to get the media involved (again as this was the 4th incident). After all, this was no "if a kid blinks the wrong way, he's a bully", a kid broke another kid's arm in two places and significantly bruised his neck, face, shoulders and back while screaming "I'm gonna get him". I hope this family sues the School Board, the School and the family of the parents of the boy that did this. Because honestly it’s likely the only way to have this Assistant Principal of Sumner Middle School and the parents of this bully fully understand the gravity of the consequences of their actions. I do believe sue happy people are out of control – but not in this incident! If they do nothing, what happens in bully incident #5 – they kill him?

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November 05, 2012
Does anyone else remember when kids were kids and "bullying" wasn't so en vogue? I read this article, but it sounds to me like a kid got hurt playing in PE...happens all the time. Always has. Perhaps the kid who pushed him intended to harm him. If he did, he should be reprimanded. If not, then the right action was taken. An ambulance is only ever called by a school system if the student is in life-threatening danger. A broken arm may hurt, but his life was not in danger, ergo...no ambulance.

Bullying is now the most popular lawsuit to date. If a kid blinks at another kid the wrong way, he's a bully. Everyone over the age of 20 has been the victim of someone judging them, telling them they don't like them, forming an unjust opinion etc. These actions aren't always bullying. Sometimes, they're just human interaction. Our society (and our school board apparently) is teaching our kids to sue each and every time their feelings get hurt.

Again, I want to reiterate...if the "attacker" did this out of cruel intention, then yes, he should be punished. But the parents here are obviously not looking for justice. They're looking for attention. It's disgusting quite frankly. All lined up for a picture in the paper and smiling to boot. Quit wasting our time and get your school-age kids in class instead of pulling them for your half-brained protest. Geez.
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November 05, 2012
These parents are not just doing this for attention. Many witnesses heard the main bully say lets get him, and he intentionally got him in a downward thrust with his elbow, knocking him to the ground. They did not go into details of the other attacks out of respect for Chris Jr. They were things that no one, boy or girl should have to endure. Those things didn't hurt him physically they hurt emotionally and psychologically. They were not mere words, words wouldn't be so bad. Furthermore, this parent has stayed out of the limelight for the previous 3 attacks and tried to with this one. The schools lack of discipline forced him to take a stand. The way these episodes have escalated, he feared for his childs life. If he doesn't stand up for his own child, how can he expect someone else to?

I am sure if this was the 4th attack on your child you would be wanting answers. Especially since it is bad enough he may have to have surgery on his arm. Don't be so quick to judge. I understand your point about defining bullying getting out of hand. I also know if people and parents DID take it a little more seriously, we wouldn't have the massacres that we have had the past 15 years in this country.

If this father didn't fight for his child and his child went crazy on these kids and brought a gun to school, guess what people would say then. Why didn't his parents do something? Just bad raising. They didn't teach him how to deal with problems. Well they are it is Society with opinons like you've just posted, not knowing all the facts that are raising kids that don't know how to deal with problems.

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November 05, 2012
Ma'am - I am 40 years old and I was bullied as a kid. From elementary school through middle school and through High School. The toll it takes on you mentally, physically and emotionally is one that I would never wish on anyone. You clearly don't know what it is like to be on the receiving end of the bullying so for you to make the comments you are is doing so from a position of sheer ignorance.

Kds were NEVER just kids. Kids have been bullying other kids since the beginning of time. It's become a bigger issue in the last 15 years for many reasons. One of the big ones is that the results (Kids being injured/killed or committing suicide) are so much more prominent and get much more publicity thanks to the internet and social media. It's been one of the hidden plagues on our society and it's finally coming to light.

I can say that, without a doubt, the parents were looking for justice. Your comment about the various different parents being lined up shows how much of a fool you are. Did you ever stop to think that the photographer from the newspaper ASKED them to get close and lined up so they could get everyone in the picture? Clearly not.

Now, as for for comments about Chris' broken arm. Do you have a medical degree? I have news for you, broken bones CAN kill you. Particularly ones that are compound in nature. They can cut blood vessels or a piece of marrow can be dislodged and enter the blood vessels, causing a clot or a heart attack. And those are things that a PE teacher or a school nurse can tell. The CORRECT action would have been to call an ambulance and have Chris taken to the hospital to ensure that everything was all right with his arm.

This protest isn't hairbrained. What is hairbrained is ignorant people like yourself passing judgement about situations you clearly are ignorant on. And that makes you part of the problem, not part of the solution.

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November 07, 2012
Lets have JAMES and CHRISTOPHER take lie detector tests!!!! Until then you are blowing hot air to make the family of the Bully look good!!!! JAMES is a bully and kids are scared at Sumner Middle!!!! Ask him to take a lie detector test!!!!!!!!! I thought so!!!! Ask the school to see the video during this time!!!! Thought so!!!
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